Life in General as I see it: Take it and put it to the left

Life in General as I see it: Take it and put it to the left: "I was just listening to one of my favorite women .The one and only, Beyonce. I loved the phrase ,'To the Left, to the Left'.I could relate t..."

Take it and put it to the left

I was just listening to one of my favorite women .The one and only, Beyonce. I loved the phrase ,"To the Left, to the Left".I could relate to that as my Grandma ,who is also from Texas ,would say something like that. Crazy old sayings. She is a true Texan woman who don't take no crap from anyone.One respectable woman.Genes that passed on to me :). So I knew in a sense where "B" was coming from.

I feel like we as people have been put on this earth for one purpose.It's up to us to finds out what that purpose is.I also feel like we should live up to our full potential. Some people have the courage to act on it, while others don't.

I feel if you believe in something, you should stand by it 100%. This also means back up what you say.So, as an example if I say that I'm  going to run at the annual company marathon and told everyone at work I was going to do this marathon. The people at work are going to look for me to do just that.Run at the company's marathon.If I don't run I get the diarrhea face or "funny" looks at work, because now I'm considered a flake or A.K.A( a total liar).Umm...Not a good trait to have.To simply put it,"Walk it like you talk it".

To know yourself  and connecting to that level is the ultimate goal for some people.You know who you are.What your willing to put in your life and what/who goes out. Recognizing that its important to progress in life, not regress.To Regress simply means that your not mature enough to handle mature problems.Still using the same frame of mind.Adolescent or elementary(All the same :). Sometimes its hard to deal with someone who has regressed, because you can never go forward.In a Friendship or relationship.That is how we grow. Sometimes in the process of growing, you have to the peaches fall from the tree.Releasing dead weight.A tree should be viable and full of life.We sometimes have to let people who hinder our growth go.Especially negative people.Pointing them to the left.

Fatal attraction ...literally

One would question why would a person have fatal attraction.Perhaps he or she is mentally ill.Just maybe the  thought was under the surface and awaiting to erupt like a volcano. Here's a thought, maybe that person played around with the other person emotions...hmm. Playing with another person emotions is clearly wrong and can be quite dangerous.This is often swept under the rug and is purposely ignored.

Fatal attraction that is brought on by having an affair outside of marriage is just asking for trouble.Not to justify the other person actions who is mentally ill, but both parties.Both parties are involved and are not forced into anything.One can choose to stop the action brought on and walk away. In other countries, a woman can be stoned, shot, or even hung by having a such thing. Point blank, its morally wrong. People will still try to justify as to why they had an affair. It may go something like this," I couldn't help but to fall in love with him/her.You can't control who you fall in love with" or"Don't judge me".Really now? Haven't we heard that heap of bull crap before. Having an affair is going out like a coward.Just tell your partner its over and move on. Have some kind of dignity.I know its easier said then done, but it takes courage to stand up and go out with your head up.This is also a bad move to creep around when you have kids.We all teach our children about honesty , even if it hurts.We try to protect them as best as we know how.Having an affair with someone you barely know is putting your kids at danger and more importantly yourself.When trying to break that affair up, it can be too late as you already toyed with someones emotions. One small bad decision can lead to totally devastation. To you or your family. Seriously speaking people, next time you play with someone emotions please think about the possibility that this person maybe one second away from snapping.You just pray that it wont be you they go off on.  I had to put this article out here because some people may never know how dangerous a simple affair can be and may brush it off.


R.I.P. Richie .May God be with you and your family.

Audience, What value do you think is more important if you had to pick one?

Ok, I know I haven't posted close a month  now. Just been busy.You know how life is :). Just a random thought.What do you consider as a most important value? It could be anything. As for me, I consider honesty as the most important value you can have as  a person, but one person has disagreed with me on this. So.. let hear it from you all

A saying that is common , but not taken to heart

You know majority of people say things to help other people. It almost seems that what is said has no type of value on it.People are told to value life and live like there is no tomorrow.We hear it and nod our heads, but don't do it. That's until something that is very drastic happens. Then we know the meaning of those forgotten words.

You may not realize that one day you maybe doing your same routine and the next day you wake up in a hospital bed from a car crash. You never really think that this may happen to you as you go around thinking your untouchable.So take time, think about what you really want out of this life, and execute the plan.When you say I love you to whom ever, really mean it. If you love someone, say it.You may never know if you will  see them again.If your done with a relationship that isn't blossoming , let it go.Move on to someone who wants to grow with you.You may never know what end of the stick you may be on. Much peace, love, and blessings to you.

- Deshilia

Stand Up

In your lifetime people will continue to try to test your limits. Not speaking of one particular event, but in the world we live in. It's important to one's ability to overcome the obstacles which are planted in cement. People may not like it, but who cares. If you constantly try to give your self to a person that doesn't give a crap about you, then obviously your not doing a good job in the self awareness department.Someone very important told me this, "Deja Vu means not to make the same mistake over again".Being firm, but not rude can sometimes be difficult.Some people like to tell it straight and some just take the passive-aggressive route.Both are no good. We are not perfect by all means, but its important to set boundaries. If they don't like it, thats one less negative energy ball you got to deal with. Be happy.

Incognito - Adventues In Black Sunshine - 12 - Mr. Jones (2004)

As I'm going through Reno, NV.Getting away from a school and closure of a bad relationship.I hear this song.Made me open the sun roof and have my hand out the window enjoying the mellow sounds to this song on a sunny day.Perfect song for what I was going through at this time. This band is from the UK and have been out since the 80's .This a mix of Neo-soul and Jazz.Incognito had hits like "Nights over Egypt".Check um out.