A saying that is common , but not taken to heart

You know majority of people say things to help other people. It almost seems that what is said has no type of value on it.People are told to value life and live like there is no tomorrow.We hear it and nod our heads, but don't do it. That's until something that is very drastic happens. Then we know the meaning of those forgotten words.

You may not realize that one day you maybe doing your same routine and the next day you wake up in a hospital bed from a car crash. You never really think that this may happen to you as you go around thinking your untouchable.So take time, think about what you really want out of this life, and execute the plan.When you say I love you to whom ever, really mean it. If you love someone, say it.You may never know if you will  see them again.If your done with a relationship that isn't blossoming , let it go.Move on to someone who wants to grow with you.You may never know what end of the stick you may be on. Much peace, love, and blessings to you.

- Deshilia

Stand Up

In your lifetime people will continue to try to test your limits. Not speaking of one particular event, but in the world we live in. It's important to one's ability to overcome the obstacles which are planted in cement. People may not like it, but who cares. If you constantly try to give your self to a person that doesn't give a crap about you, then obviously your not doing a good job in the self awareness department.Someone very important told me this, "Deja Vu means not to make the same mistake over again".Being firm, but not rude can sometimes be difficult.Some people like to tell it straight and some just take the passive-aggressive route.Both are no good. We are not perfect by all means, but its important to set boundaries. If they don't like it, thats one less negative energy ball you got to deal with. Be happy.

Incognito - Adventues In Black Sunshine - 12 - Mr. Jones (2004)

As I'm going through Reno, NV.Getting away from a school and closure of a bad relationship.I hear this song.Made me open the sun roof and have my hand out the window enjoying the mellow sounds to this song on a sunny day.Perfect song for what I was going through at this time. This band is from the UK and have been out since the 80's .This a mix of Neo-soul and Jazz.Incognito had hits like "Nights over Egypt".Check um out.